Divorce

One of the most stressful parts of a divorce case can be receiving notice that you must appear for a deposition. Many people have never heard of a deposition until they become involved in litigation. As a result, it is common for people to feel nervous or intimidated...

It’s a common situation in Massachusetts divorces: one spouse moves out early in the process, tensions cool (or finances tighten), and the question comes up—can my spouse move back in while the divorce is still pending? In the absence of a court order, in most cases,...

In Massachusetts, a married couple can continue living in the same home while going through a divorce. While this is legally permitted, it is often far more difficult than people expect—and in many cases, it can create additional problems rather than solve them. There...

The fastest way to get divorced is for the two spouses to agree on all issues and avoid a contested divorce. The faster the spouses agree on the issues the faster they can get divorced and end the marriage. If an agreement is reached before filing for divorce the...

Every year, family law attorneys notice the same pattern: the phone starts ringing more often as soon as the New Year begins. Consultations increase, website traffic rises, and many people quietly start taking the first steps toward ending their marriage. That...

Divorcing a narcissist is very different from divorcing an ordinary spouse. Narcissists do not compromise, do not accept blame, and often view the divorce as a contest they must “win.” That mind set can turn even a straightforward divorce into a prolonged, expensive,...

As a divorce lawyer I frequently see parents who have difficulty communicating with each other. When parents have this problem they frequently resort to passing messages to each other using the children as messengers. Putting the children in the middle between the...

When parents separate or divorce, one of the most emotionally charged issues is determining where a child will live. In Massachusetts, many parents ask: Can my child choose whom to live with? The answer is not as simple as a “yes” or “no.” Massachusetts courts...

As a divorce lawyer, I am often asked if a client can date while getting divorced. Of course, what the client is really asking is if the client can have sexual relations with someone who is not their spouse while getting divorced. The answer is yes but it could cause...

1. Meet Residency Requirements You must have lived in Massachusetts for at least one year, or the cause of the divorce must have occurred in Massachusetts while you both lived there. 2. Choose the Type of Divorce Uncontested (1A): Both spouses agree on all terms....